My daughter, Amanda, was home from college this weekend and we were planning spring break vacation. It is going to be my daughter, my Mom and myself so it will be a "Girls Trip". Amanda is so excited I don't know how she is going to get through this next week. Last night we finalized the arrangements so we are planning to go on a cruise. My -ex said that he needed to know where we going to make sure it was safe. After 11 years the man is still trying to control my life and I just can't believe it. My Dad and brother go on hunting trips so my Mother is looking forward to going with us for some relaxation. I still send Amanda weekly cards at college, and this will be the one that I send this week.